You're Only In a Race Against Yourself and Other Lessons I Learned from the Marines

I had the honor this past weekend of accompanying my son and his high school rugby team as they took part in a team-building exercise with some members of the 5th Marine Division at Camp Pendleton in California. The experience we had along and the lessons he and his team learned really resonated, reinforcing many of the critical skills I’ve worked hard to instill in my son. It also reminded me why I love the culture and toughness of rugby so much.

In the end all parents really want the same thing: well-adjusted kids of strong character and determination (grit) that are resilient enough to handle what life throws at them. In the case of my son I believe my role is to turn him into someone who will eventually become a great father, partner and provider. This past Saturday, the Marines, through their outlook on the world, helped reinforce some of the key lessons my wife and I have worked so hard to instill in our kids.

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Classic Inspiration: "If" by Rudyard Kipling

Inspiration comes in many forms. While we are often caught up in what we perceive as modern day problems, we tend to forget that men have dealt with the same obstacles all along and great wisdom can be found in classic literature. One such example is If by the great late Victorian era poet Rudyard Kipling. The classic dispenses timeless on honor, character, strength and humility that is accessible to all ages on the journey to becoming a better and more attentive man, from teenagers all the way to men far into adulthood.

Here is the classic poem followed by some analysis of my favorite passages and how they are as timeless and relevant as ever:

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